quotes from Healing the Shame that Binds You: ‘To truly be committed to a life of honesty, love and discipline, we must be willing to commit ourselve. Healing the Shame that Binds You has ratings and reviews. Emma said: This book is a fundamental text in the field. What I found most helpful wa. In an emotionally revealing way John Bradshaw shows us how toxic shame is the useful healing techniques, he realeases the shame that binds us to thepast.

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And, I think there was a spiritual journey part at the end that I didn’t get either, joohn Christian orientated, if I remember. Bradshaw is one of the preeminent writers on emotional health. We are all in a posthypnotic trance induced in early infancy.

All in all, good ideas, passable execution.

Healing the Shame that Binds You

View all 3 comments. Anyway, five stars because I found it really useful after those pages.

Example of blaming suame global labelling: Because a really good friend insisted that I had to and that it was very relevant to me.

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Healing the Shame that Binds You Quotes by John Bradshaw

So without recovery, our toxic shame gets carried for generations. It was good to revisit some of the thoughts, theories, ideas put forward and the exercises. While positive shame empowers us and sustains the fabric of our social system, inappropriate or misdirected shame results in the breakdown of our self-esteem, the destruction of the family system, and an inability to move forward with our lives.

These scripts are the roots of violence, criminality, war and all forms of addiction. And I am so glad I did. I felt shame for not doing what they wanted me to do–which was stay inside a dysfunctional marriage. The dynamic core of your human life is grounded in your feelings, needs and drives.


I think before going to heal people with your miraculous technics, you should heal yourself first. I listened whenever Shae had a spare momentthen listened to the audio book a second time Do you sometimes feel as if you’re just going through the motions in life? They try to be more than human perfect and controlling or less than human losing interest in life or stagnated in some addictive behavior. To be honest, I just couldn’t relate to hohn things, although I recognize that many people would and need to read this.

Confluence is the agreement never to disagree. In the first three years of our life each of us needed to be admired and taken seriously.

We needed to be accepted jihn the very one we are. According to this book, shame – toxic or healthy – is the root cause of every type of human behavior ever.

Healing the Shame That Binds You

The result is a breakdown It was recommended by someone who found great worth in the book. I loved the idea of this book but could only get half way through with it. This book has helped millions identify hesling personal shame, understand the underlying reasons for it, address these root causes and release themselves from the shame that binds them to their past failures.

Christiane Northrup MD Length: I’ve spent many hours, weeksmonths and years trying this stuff but have never had my results from it What is the evidence that supports your conclusion, and what is the evidence that does not support your conclusion? You should do these the way the perfec-tionistic ideal demands. Incredible Revelations for Me This ylu had so many revelations for me.


A deep insight that “toxic shame” is at the core of human nature. Being is the ground of all beings that are.

You are completely fixated on the one bad thing and ignore the multitude of good things. Perhaps I over tgat with being compassionate, kind and non-combative? Such a feeling is so painful that defending scripts or strategies are developed to cover it up.

When my life was falling apart, and my family began walking out of my life, because I was no longer following their rules, or thinking like them, deep shame showed up in my life.

Healing the Shame that Binds You by John Bradshaw

Charles Whitfield Narrated by: Ninds affirmations, visualizations, “inner voice” and “feeling” work plus guided meditations and other useful healing techniques, he realeases the shame that binds shamme to thepast. Michaela Boehm Narrated by: Anyway, here are some ideas from this book that I thought were interesting.

The perfectionist rule always involves an imposed measurement. Thanks for telling us about the problem. This important book breaks new ground in the core issues of societal and personal breakdown, offering techniques of recovery vital to all of us. Very practical and the exercises are very useful.

Don’t get me started on the lack of any kind of logic in the diagrams that are presented or in the text that is supposed to explain them.

I guess it’s a difference between sympathy and bindds. It’s also great for parenting, understanding others in our lives, and society in general.

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